To people out there who've been feeling like a failure.
please oh please stop being so dramatic.
stop blaming people on how your life turn out to be.
you may say it it's not what it seems but oh~
i know in that mind of yours you've been thinking over and over again
on how to right it indirectly.


those who indirectly blaming people, you're smart.
you know you meant to right it that way so if there are comebacks
you know exactly what to say back.


those who blame yourself,you just need attention.
blaming yourself is like directly blaming other people.
like seriously,you know that person will feel bad for you.
that's just selfish of you to do that.


please people,you live your life for your own & not anyone else.
not for your mom,your BF/GF,your GOD or whoever but yourself.
every day , every minute & every second of your life is a decision to make.
& you decide on what you chose,you and not anyone else.


like for example. you love this 2 shoes but you can only afford one.
you ask your friend/mom/sister/brother which is nicer, black or white?
they say white. you dont have to choose the same thing.
even if you chose white,its not their choice,it still yours.
because you choose to listen to them. see,you choose.


everything in your life you need to choose.
you choose if you wanna go to sch.
you choose if you wanna date this person.
you choose if you want to work.
you choose if you want to hurt yourself.
you choose if you should buy this.
you choose if you want to walk.
basically there are unlimited of choices in your life.
& you know choices have consequences, be it good or bad its who you are now.


i've learn in life, don't ever look down on yourself too soon.
nothing is too late. everyone have 24 hr in a day. dont say its not fair.
every day you must strategies what is it gonna be.
its just like a game. if you strategies you gonna survive or better,you will win.
of you play without thinking you might lose everything you had.
sometimes more than once in our lifetime, we have beginner's luck.
whre everything goes not as you planned but better than you expected.


no one force you to decide on how your life should be.
you decided one way or another.
make someone else control your life or you yourself take control of it.
you can end your life now. but you choose not to.
& people tend to live their life for other people.
especially for parents. not that its not a good thing.
but its better if you get use to a mindset that you live for yourself.


you don't live making your love ones happy.
you live by making yourself happy.
& when your love ones sees you happy,they're sure to be happy too.
no doubt~


dont make a decision that you think make the other person satisfied.
make things happen because that satisfy you.
no one will go through life with you from you're born till you die but yourself.
its all up to you... no hard time.
there's no penalty if you make a mistake.
better yet, make as much mistakes as you can when you're young.
but learn from them and dont repeat what bad for you in future.


ok that all for this post.. toodles~