I tried to compromise. Simple stuff. Let him have his way. I find it it was logical in some way. But he wants everything to make sense to him. Whatever i did or do doesnt make sense. He dont understand or try to understand. All he say he understand but why must it be so? Whatever i do and feel doesnt seem logical. I have to be direct. i have to be logical. I cant be like this or like that. Thats why theres so much problem. The thing is. Its not me. Its us. We cant compromise. He cant see himself to change a little. He dont find any logic to change his mindset cox its doesnt make sense to him. He believe his way is the only way. (look who became just like their dad) he cant he says. Its not he cants. He just wont. He wont even try cox he doesnt think it make any situation better. I cant talk to him without tears pouring out. Cox the more he talks the more is realize he wont change a single bit. Not even a slight chance or hope he will. He stand on his believes and his way of thinking. He cant open up to see it my way or any other way. Even if i dont make sense to other people it doesnt matter cox it make sense to me. People respect that and understand that sometimes. Everyone is different. I just think it wont work out if he cant work it out. All he wants is me to try his way of thinking and use that. Be direct. Be logical. Be reasonable. He's too black and white. Too strict. There's no imagination or hope or change. Not even open to think differently. But he thinks all i do is making him be the bad guy. He's not perfect. Yes. But if he puts effort to be one for me without being told maybe there's still hope. He told me he cant see the way i do. He wants me to tell him what i want in him. Its like "hi, can u be a gentlemen in every way possible. Thanks." Telling him what he's not to him is making effort. 'Effort: determined attempt' he doesnt attempt. He just want me to direct him to attempt. He cant and wont do it at his own free will. He wont do it cox he knows will make me feel better. He'll do it only when i tell him to. Him doing it is making an effort.